Back in February 2010 I wrote up a list of 30 things I wanted to do before I turned 30. And as today marks exactly one year til my 30th, I thought I would take a look back at my list and check my progress, and also make a few tweaks to my original list {and write a really wordy post to do it}.
I know, I know. It might seem like cheating to change up the list, but the reason for it is priorities change. Two years ago my goals were slightly different and that means a couple things on the list are irrelevant. And some were, at the time, things I wanted to do just to say I did, but after staring at the list for the past couple of years I know my time can be better spent focusing on some different things I REALLY want to make time for. Which means, some of the items on the list are getting traded out for some new to-dos and it’s my list so get over it.
So, here’s a rundown of my progress and future plans for my last year in my 20s {sniff!}:
These are DONE:
- Vacation somewhere tropical. {Woop! Hawaii!}
- Host a girl’s night in {Actually did three of these with three different groups!.:)}
- Make that bikini body happen. {I’m counting it because I wore one in public, haha}
- Get totally glammed up and go dancing and clubbing allll night. {couple times in Vegas}
- Attempt snowboarding.
- Buy a piece of art from a local artist.
- Take a dance class. {I took belly dancing for a few months – want to do it again!}
- Go on a mega hot date – red lipstick required. {Vegas for JB’s 30th!}
- Go ice-skating.
- Take a day off of work, drive somewhere remote and take photos.
- Get a massage.
These are getting bumped off the list:
- Go snow-shoeing. {I hate snow. Snow is dumb. Maybe I’ll try this one day, but won’t go out of my way to do so!}
- Get a tattoo. {Maybe on my next list, but I’m still undecided on this one for now. I am pro-tattoo for sure but I don’t know that it’s something I want to do just to cross off a list. I need to be inspired and not have a deadline.}
- Get a freelance writing/design gig going on the side, if just on a really small scale. Which means… a plan, a website and some promoting. {Writing is no longer a life goal of mine. Bigger and better things? Maybe.}
- Learn to knit. {Maybe this will be on my next list but I don’t have the attention span for this right now}.
- Go to a wine-tasting. {I gave up drinking so this no longer interests me!}
- Purchase a really great article of designer clothing, or a pair of shoes. Even if it’s from Ebay. Even if I have to ration food to pay for it. {Don’t get me wrong – this still sounds awesome. But it’s pretty unimportant to me at the moment. I actually have tried to knock this one out from the list several times only to feel like an ugly over-consumer!}
The rest of the {numbered} items below are yet to do or yet to finish.
These are in progress/on track:
- Finish my Master’s Degree {I have 5 classes left. If all goes as planned I will be done by December of this year!!}
- Pay off my student loans {I’m sooo close. I should have them paid off this summer!!}
- Grow my hair out as long as possible.
- Strive to find my style. Don’t purchase things I only *kind of* like. Buy things that are awesome. Make things. Thrift things and fix them up. {this is always in progress I guess}
- Write my bucket list.
These are yet-to-do:
- Do at least one volunteer project, if not something on-going.
- Go to a FANTASTIC music festival.
- Buy a fabulously girly head-to-toe outfit and plan a fabulous day wearing it.
- Hike to an overnight camping destination.
- Take a road trip.
- Go to New York.
- Find a charity to donate to yearly.
- Cook something that involves lighting it on fire.
THESE are the new items:
- Master the Crow pose and Wheel pose in yoga. I know I’m capable with more practice.
- Visit Portland. It’s been on my list for a long time. Also, I was once told that if I were a city, I would be Portland. I don’t know what that means but if they had said I’d be Raleigh that’d be on my list instead.
- Build a piece of furniture. Not a revamp, but an actual follow-some-plans-and-make-it-myself.
- Attempt rock-climbing.
- Become more self-sustaining for the long-term. This is an ever-evolving project/goal, but I want to put a lot of energy into it over the next year: maintaining a garden, learning to can, improving my sewing, building, and baking skills, and possibly even raising chickens for eggs!}
- Create my own art. Not just crafty.. but actually paint something totally original.
19 of 30 yet to do {stay calm}, and it’s a pretty FULL year if I tackle them all. I admit it! But it’s worth attempting. I’m a huge advocate of planning BIG and at least making a dent, as opposed to not getting around to any of it because I didn’t make it a priority. That’s the point of this .. not to say 30 is the end of fun or some sort of deadline in my professional life. Hardly! I will just have a new list for the next phase of my life – never stop growing, planning, reaching, experiencing, learning, creating.
30 in 365..herewegoooo!
I love reading your lists. It makes me want to make one of my own, but it’s so crazy to think that mine would probably be before 40!! (I guess I could do 35.) Anyway, happy, happy birthday and here’s to a whole year of crossing stuff off your list!!
Thanks my friend!! You should absolutely make your own {and before 35 is totally perfect, I think!!}
I all for changing lists like this because we change. I did the 101 in 1001 list thing a few times and always felt bad for changing things but then, the second time around, I gave myself some slack and realized that I don’t want the same thing right now that I’m going to want in a year or more.
Exactly! Something about putting it in writing makes it feel like a commitment, but we have to adapt. We only have so much time and attention, and it’s actually something I’m working on all the time, to narrow my focus. Sometimes I feel like I’m just throwing darts in every direction hoping some will stick. Lists help me focus better but even then we have to re-evaluate from time to time.